*this is Rob's own Blog, not an official ATEK release.*
Now as I said when I announced my position as ATEK communications officer, I don't want ATEK to take over Roboseyo... on the other hand, this here passes the "if I weren't ATEK's communications guy, would I write about this?" test.
As you may have heard at Chris in South Korea, ATEK President Greg Dolezal's one-year term is coming to an end, and we're taking nominations right now for candidates for the next president.
Last year, the debate between Greg Dolezal and Stephannie White during ATEK's presidential campaigns, hosted by Koreabridge.net, led to a great podcast which ended up articulating a lot of the issues affecting English teachers.
Now, a year later, ATEK is standing on much more stable ground than its controversy-ridden beginnings. The three-man organization and the Equal Checks campaign have given way to a solid organization built for growth, a growing membership, and a growing number of active officers working in their regional organizations to help English teachers with all kinds of different needs.
Some of ATEK's recent successes include launching the Legal Assurance Program with Kangnam Labor Law Firm, building connections with the Seoul Metro Police Association, ratifying a set of new bylaws that set the organization up for big growth in the future, growing connections with groups like Kotesol, and avoiding the standoffish posture that, while it seems like stuff is getting accomplished, ultimately alienates the people we want to be talking with. ATEK is making inroads to having an actual place at the table in discussions about the future of English education in Korea, and ATEK has more officers and more support now for the next president than we've ever had before: when Greg started, the number of ATEK officers was much smaller, and the organization was recovering from some bad press, and we're looking for nominations for our next president: a few candidates would be ideal: giving members a choice is important, and the campaign is an important chance to articulate ATEK's next steps.
Any general member can run for president... to become an associate member, go to ATEK.or.kr/join, and to become a general member (which you have to be, to run for president), the e-mail you receive for becoming an associate member will have more information. Then, once you're a general member, go to the general member discussion forums, and post a comment announcing your candidacy. For more information, e-mail Russell at officers@atek.or.kr, or Greg at president@atek.or.kr
In my opinion, what ATEK needs now is somebody who can build on the foundation we have: ATEK is working really well as a communication network, sharing information and help with teachers who need it, and gathering information from teachers, to communicate them to those who make decisions that affect English teachers' fates. People who want to know what foreigners think about Korea are starting to contact ATEK, because it's put itself out there, and buddy, we badly need other sources for quotes about about English teachers in Korea.
Who'll do well? Somebody who's good with people, somebody who looks before he or she leaps, but who is passionate about improving English teachers' situations in Korea. A peacemaker and a coordinator will be more successful than a disturber: because ATEK is still a young organization, the decisions made now can have long-lasting effects, and a good president will be careful enough to consider long-term effects of decisions, but also has the drive to take opportunities when they come.
Meanwhile, ATEK continues looking for people who care about English education in Korea: we have communications positions involving translation and gathering resources to help English teachers, as well as website design and content management. We have lots of local districts looking for officers in all kinds of positions: social officers to organize events, emergency needs officers to take care of sudden problems that pop up, ethics officers to act as the organization's accountability voice and consciences, and representatives for hogwan teachers, public school teachers, and others. There are people who have complained that when ATEK says, "We need people to help out," we don't say "We specifically want people with these skills to do this" --- but that's really because there are spaces for what-ever you like to do, and whatever you're good at. atek.or.kr/officers. Like helping people? Like coordinating events? Like sifting through information to choose the most correct and appropriate course of action? Got law background? Got counselling background? Got a heartbeat? Atek can find a place where you can add value to the experiences of English teachers in your area, where you can come away from Korea with a reference letter, a better feeling about your time in Korea, and another bullet-point on your resume.
one expat's life in Korea
Friday, July 30, 2010
Paper Wedding Done
The good news is, if you wake up really early, you can get all the paper wedding work done in a morning. Mrs. Roboseyo and I did exactly that yesterday. The even better good news was that just in case there WERE lines, Jagiseyo (see what I'm doing here?) had cleared the entire day... and then we totally got the afternoon free. So we went to Wood & Brick, a great bakery to visit in the evening, when their stocks are almost sold out, but an AMAAAZING bakery to visit in the morning, when the sourdough rye is still warm. We loaded up on good breadstuffs, and had an easy afternoon that involved Seokchon Lake Park in Jamsil, the best Jajangmyeon I've had in my life, and a movie in Myeongdong.
And the paper wedding is done. We're officially married, all three ways: in a church, in front of a crowd, and in the district office.
The only drawback was that the Korean district office needed a week to send the official certificate, which means that while I got 80% of the immigration work done to apply for my F-2 (marriage) visa, I'll have to go back there with that documents to get the final stamp on it.
Fortunately for Yobo-seyo, the immigration official was very understanding about her work schedule, and said that if I find her back when I return later, Wifeoseyo doesn't need to be there in person, so long as I have all the documents she needed.
Anyway, we saw "Salt" - the new Angelina Jolie movie, which has made me decide/realize two things.
1. Angelina Jolie is the most convincing female hollywood action hero since Sigourney Weaver in the Alien movies. Who else is even in the running? Mila Jovovich for Resident Evil, Uma Thurman for Kill Bill (but have you seen "My Super Ex-Girlfriend"? Just about cancels it all out.) Michelle Rodruigez, but she's having trouble graduating from "Member of the rag-tag group who saves the day" to "Serious headliner" Anybody I'm missing? And don't you dare say the Charlie's Angels' ladies. Michelle Yeoh kicks ALL their asses sideways till tuesday... that's why I said "Hollywood female action heroes"
2. If you're a major hollywood star, and you throw a bone to Korean audiences, they will reward you with SO much love, and probably an extra half-million ticket receipts. Hugh Jackman, Angelina Jolie, Nicholas Cage: they visited Seoul, and said some nice things about the country and the food, and now Roboseyette absolutely adores them. (conversely, if you are mean about Korea, you may face a backlash... sometimes with a long memory. Oprah.)
Then, the big bummer of the day:
I've always said I love that Korea's a really honest country: I once left my shoulder-bag on the back of a chair in a PC room and the next morning it was still there, un-touched, and un-looted. On the other hand, maybe the law of averages had to exert itself:
After having a really, really wonderful day, in the taxi on the way home, I realized that my wallet was missing. And it was full of cash - full - after I'd changed almost a year's worth of coin-change into cash this week. It might have fallen out of my pocket during the movie (which wasn't that impressive - Manchurian Candidate + more explosions, basically), but I'm pretty conscientious about that stuff; I think it might have been pick-pocketed. Bummer.
Also gone: my Alien Registration Card, my Korean Driver's License, my Korean bank card, my Canadian bank card, and my Canadian credit card. Some frequent user stamp cards from some coffee shops. An old student ID card with a really funny picture which I'd kept in there to crack people up (totally irreplaceable). My costco card. (NNNNOOOOOOOOO!)
NOT gone:
My birth certificate, which I fortuitously removed from the wallet this afternoon thinking, "It's best not to carry this around everywhere"
My passport
My Canadian driver's license
--which is to day, I didn't lose anything that's worse than inconvenient or annoying to replace, except that student card. Made the phone calls, froze my credit cards - nobody'd tried to use them, anyway, and now I have to ask them to issue me a new Alien Card at Immigration, I guess. Came out of it relatively unharmed... though a little humbled, a little more cautious, and large payer of the "stupid tax" this month.
So... here's the choice:
Wifeoseyo
Yobo-seyo
Mrs. Roboseyo
Roboseyette
Jagiseyo
and while The Mrs. has final veto, and I'm giving myself five votes, I'm making a poll: how do you think I should refer to the Mrs. on my blog, now that we're married?
And the paper wedding is done. We're officially married, all three ways: in a church, in front of a crowd, and in the district office.
The only drawback was that the Korean district office needed a week to send the official certificate, which means that while I got 80% of the immigration work done to apply for my F-2 (marriage) visa, I'll have to go back there with that documents to get the final stamp on it.
Fortunately for Yobo-seyo, the immigration official was very understanding about her work schedule, and said that if I find her back when I return later, Wifeoseyo doesn't need to be there in person, so long as I have all the documents she needed.
Anyway, we saw "Salt" - the new Angelina Jolie movie, which has made me decide/realize two things.
1. Angelina Jolie is the most convincing female hollywood action hero since Sigourney Weaver in the Alien movies. Who else is even in the running? Mila Jovovich for Resident Evil, Uma Thurman for Kill Bill (but have you seen "My Super Ex-Girlfriend"? Just about cancels it all out.) Michelle Rodruigez, but she's having trouble graduating from "Member of the rag-tag group who saves the day" to "Serious headliner" Anybody I'm missing? And don't you dare say the Charlie's Angels' ladies. Michelle Yeoh kicks ALL their asses sideways till tuesday... that's why I said "Hollywood female action heroes"
2. If you're a major hollywood star, and you throw a bone to Korean audiences, they will reward you with SO much love, and probably an extra half-million ticket receipts. Hugh Jackman, Angelina Jolie, Nicholas Cage: they visited Seoul, and said some nice things about the country and the food, and now Roboseyette absolutely adores them. (conversely, if you are mean about Korea, you may face a backlash... sometimes with a long memory. Oprah.)
Then, the big bummer of the day:
I've always said I love that Korea's a really honest country: I once left my shoulder-bag on the back of a chair in a PC room and the next morning it was still there, un-touched, and un-looted. On the other hand, maybe the law of averages had to exert itself:
After having a really, really wonderful day, in the taxi on the way home, I realized that my wallet was missing. And it was full of cash - full - after I'd changed almost a year's worth of coin-change into cash this week. It might have fallen out of my pocket during the movie (which wasn't that impressive - Manchurian Candidate + more explosions, basically), but I'm pretty conscientious about that stuff; I think it might have been pick-pocketed. Bummer.
Also gone: my Alien Registration Card, my Korean Driver's License, my Korean bank card, my Canadian bank card, and my Canadian credit card. Some frequent user stamp cards from some coffee shops. An old student ID card with a really funny picture which I'd kept in there to crack people up (totally irreplaceable). My costco card. (NNNNOOOOOOOOO!)
NOT gone:
My birth certificate, which I fortuitously removed from the wallet this afternoon thinking, "It's best not to carry this around everywhere"
My passport
My Canadian driver's license
--which is to day, I didn't lose anything that's worse than inconvenient or annoying to replace, except that student card. Made the phone calls, froze my credit cards - nobody'd tried to use them, anyway, and now I have to ask them to issue me a new Alien Card at Immigration, I guess. Came out of it relatively unharmed... though a little humbled, a little more cautious, and large payer of the "stupid tax" this month.
So... here's the choice:
Wifeoseyo
Yobo-seyo
Mrs. Roboseyo
Roboseyette
Jagiseyo
and while The Mrs. has final veto, and I'm giving myself five votes, I'm making a poll: how do you think I should refer to the Mrs. on my blog, now that we're married?
Monday, July 26, 2010
Calling All English Teachers, past or present... Survey
If you are an English teacher right now, or were last year, or were in 1984, there's a survey I'd like you to do...
1. click on this link
http://www.ballotbin.com/voterReg.php?b=15507
2. put your e-mail address in the two boxes.
This step is necessary so that we know we're getting unique survey-takers, not the same ones again and again.
3. After you've entered your e-mail address, the survey website will send you an e-mail with a link, and then it will forget your e-mail address forever. Another person will get an e-mail saying "hey! another person did the survey!" and that will be it: your address will never be connected to your answers, and will not appear in any kind of database. Promise.
4. Once you get that link sent to your address, click on it, and fill out the survey.
It asks you questions about your experience teaching in Korea - answer the questions about your entire time teaching in Korea.
5. Tell your friends about the survey.
This survey is being conducted by ATEK (http://atek.or.kr/survey), but you don't have to be a member of ATEK to participate. You don't have to be a teacher right now to participate, you don't even need to be in Korea to participate: all you need is once, at some time in your life, to have been a teacher in Korea. We're hoping to get a large enough sample size that the statistics will carry some real weight as representative of the "average" teacher's experience in Korea.
If you had a bad experience, or a great experience in Korea, we'd like you to participate, so that the whole thing's balanced: so don't just do the survey if you've got a gripe; do it if you had a great time, too.
As you know, ATEK, the Association for Teachers of English in Korea, is an organization whose mission is to improve life for English teachers in Korea; ATEK is conducting this survey to better understand the situation of English teachers in Korea, so that we know what the major issues are that affect teachers, and how to better serve English teachers in Korea.
1. click on this link
http://www.ballotbin.com/voterReg.php?b=15507
2. put your e-mail address in the two boxes.
This step is necessary so that we know we're getting unique survey-takers, not the same ones again and again.
3. After you've entered your e-mail address, the survey website will send you an e-mail with a link, and then it will forget your e-mail address forever. Another person will get an e-mail saying "hey! another person did the survey!" and that will be it: your address will never be connected to your answers, and will not appear in any kind of database. Promise.
4. Once you get that link sent to your address, click on it, and fill out the survey.
It asks you questions about your experience teaching in Korea - answer the questions about your entire time teaching in Korea.
5. Tell your friends about the survey.
This survey is being conducted by ATEK (http://atek.or.kr/survey), but you don't have to be a member of ATEK to participate. You don't have to be a teacher right now to participate, you don't even need to be in Korea to participate: all you need is once, at some time in your life, to have been a teacher in Korea. We're hoping to get a large enough sample size that the statistics will carry some real weight as representative of the "average" teacher's experience in Korea.
If you had a bad experience, or a great experience in Korea, we'd like you to participate, so that the whole thing's balanced: so don't just do the survey if you've got a gripe; do it if you had a great time, too.
As you know, ATEK, the Association for Teachers of English in Korea, is an organization whose mission is to improve life for English teachers in Korea; ATEK is conducting this survey to better understand the situation of English teachers in Korea, so that we know what the major issues are that affect teachers, and how to better serve English teachers in Korea.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Korean Blog List: Choosing Your New Blog's Name...
From time to time I check up on the Korean Blog List to scan the K-blogs out there and see if there are any that I'd like to check up on more regularly. This, along with checking the sidebar links of your favorite K-blogs, is one of the two best ways to see what's new in the K-blogosphere.
Even "the big guys" like The Brian Formerly in Jeollanamdo got a lot of their most interesting stories from lesser-known blogs who were closer to the actual issue at hand, and a blogger who doesn't update their sidebars and keep up with what's new, runs the risk of stagnating. If the newest blog you have in your sidebar links is Brian in Jeollanamdo, Metropolitician, (not to take away from those two bloggers) or me, you might want to revisit your link list, and see what's new.
I wrote at length on "How to get your K-blog Noticed" a while ago, and when people ask me for advice or help, I usually refer them back to that post. Despite what The Stallion would have you believe, it isn't an exclusive club.
Looking through the new additions to the Korean Blog List, though, it struck me again how important it can be to have a catchy blog name - which names jumped out at me while scanning that long list? If you want to have a blog people remember, three things to keep in mind when choosing your name are:
1. times and places can limit you. "Joe's Year in Korea" "Anna in Daegu" - what if Joe decides to stay on for another year? What if Anna moves to Busan? Brian in Jeollanamdo is in Pittsburgh now... but he'll have that name, at least in K-blog circles, every time we mention him. "Seoul2008" probably feels pretty awkward blogging about Daegu 2010, doesn't she?
2. It's hard to switch names after you've already chosen one, so choosing an interesting one from the get-go will help if you hope to become a "noted K-blogger" (whatever that's worth).
3. Sorry if you have one, but there are so many K-blogs that pun on Seoul/Soul and that use "Kimchi" in the name already, that nobody will be able to keep your blog apart from the others anymore. K-blog readers I talk to still confuse "Eat Your Kimchi" with "Kimchi IceCream" - two very good, very different blogs both of whom have been writing for more than two years each. There are 12 blogs on the Korean Blog List with Kimchi in the name. There are 15 blogs that pun on soul/Seoul, including two "seoul searcher"s... I don't think any of them need to change their names, and I like some of those blogs a lot... but if you're starting a NEW blog, just recognize that the Seoul/Soul/Kimchi niche is already saturated, and let me recommend you veer in another direction that won't get confused with a dozen other similarly-named blogs. Or offer the owner of one of those blogs a fat check to take over their name.
Best K-blog name I saw on the new additions to the Korean Blog List this time: Blog-gogi. Memorable, clearly Korea-related, clearly a blog.
To everybody who already has Kimchi or Seoul in your blog name: I'm not criticizing you, your blog, or your blog name. Don't sweat it. In fact, this post isn't directed toward you at all: it's directed at somebody who's thinking of a name for their new K-blog.
As apology, here are links to every Kimchi Blog: I like your blogs! Keep it up!
ZenKimchi
Kimchi Mamas
Tiffany in Kimchiland
Kimchi and Cornbread
Kimchi Ice-Cream
Kiss My Kimchi
The Kimchi Chronicles
Kimchi with Eish
Kimchi Cheeseburger
Korea, Kimchi, & K-pop
Cats and Kimchi
Kimchi World
and links to every Soul/Seoul Blog: I like some of these - in fact, some bloggers from both of these lists are among my favorite blogs, bloggers, and people...but 15 is a lot, yah?
Joe Seoul Man
Seoul Man in Tokyo
The Seoul Patch
Seoul Sucking Jerk
formerly Seoul Purpose
Seoul Searching
Seoul Food
EPs Heart in Seoul
We've Got Seoul
Seoul Sounds
JSE Seoul Searching
Deep in my Seoul
The Seoul Searcher
A Seoulful Life
A Soul-less Man
Some of the uniquer K-blog names out there...
Paul Ajosshi
ZenKimchi (nobody mixes it up with anybody else - inventing a new word helps)
The Chosun Bimbo
Gusts of Popular Feeling
Good for Man's Health
Hermit Hideaways
Even "the big guys" like The Brian Formerly in Jeollanamdo got a lot of their most interesting stories from lesser-known blogs who were closer to the actual issue at hand, and a blogger who doesn't update their sidebars and keep up with what's new, runs the risk of stagnating. If the newest blog you have in your sidebar links is Brian in Jeollanamdo, Metropolitician, (not to take away from those two bloggers) or me, you might want to revisit your link list, and see what's new.
I wrote at length on "How to get your K-blog Noticed" a while ago, and when people ask me for advice or help, I usually refer them back to that post. Despite what The Stallion would have you believe, it isn't an exclusive club.
Looking through the new additions to the Korean Blog List, though, it struck me again how important it can be to have a catchy blog name - which names jumped out at me while scanning that long list? If you want to have a blog people remember, three things to keep in mind when choosing your name are:
1. times and places can limit you. "Joe's Year in Korea" "Anna in Daegu" - what if Joe decides to stay on for another year? What if Anna moves to Busan? Brian in Jeollanamdo is in Pittsburgh now... but he'll have that name, at least in K-blog circles, every time we mention him. "Seoul2008" probably feels pretty awkward blogging about Daegu 2010, doesn't she?
2. It's hard to switch names after you've already chosen one, so choosing an interesting one from the get-go will help if you hope to become a "noted K-blogger" (whatever that's worth).
3. Sorry if you have one, but there are so many K-blogs that pun on Seoul/Soul and that use "Kimchi" in the name already, that nobody will be able to keep your blog apart from the others anymore. K-blog readers I talk to still confuse "Eat Your Kimchi" with "Kimchi IceCream" - two very good, very different blogs both of whom have been writing for more than two years each. There are 12 blogs on the Korean Blog List with Kimchi in the name. There are 15 blogs that pun on soul/Seoul, including two "seoul searcher"s... I don't think any of them need to change their names, and I like some of those blogs a lot... but if you're starting a NEW blog, just recognize that the Seoul/Soul/Kimchi niche is already saturated, and let me recommend you veer in another direction that won't get confused with a dozen other similarly-named blogs. Or offer the owner of one of those blogs a fat check to take over their name.
Best K-blog name I saw on the new additions to the Korean Blog List this time: Blog-gogi. Memorable, clearly Korea-related, clearly a blog.
To everybody who already has Kimchi or Seoul in your blog name: I'm not criticizing you, your blog, or your blog name. Don't sweat it. In fact, this post isn't directed toward you at all: it's directed at somebody who's thinking of a name for their new K-blog.
As apology, here are links to every Kimchi Blog: I like your blogs! Keep it up!
ZenKimchi
Kimchi Mamas
Tiffany in Kimchiland
Kimchi and Cornbread
Kimchi Ice-Cream
Kiss My Kimchi
The Kimchi Chronicles
Kimchi with Eish
Kimchi Cheeseburger
Korea, Kimchi, & K-pop
Cats and Kimchi
Kimchi World
and links to every Soul/Seoul Blog: I like some of these - in fact, some bloggers from both of these lists are among my favorite blogs, bloggers, and people...but 15 is a lot, yah?
Joe Seoul Man
Seoul Man in Tokyo
The Seoul Patch
Seoul Sucking Jerk
formerly Seoul Purpose
Seoul Searching
Seoul Food
EPs Heart in Seoul
We've Got Seoul
Seoul Sounds
JSE Seoul Searching
Deep in my Seoul
The Seoul Searcher
A Seoulful Life
A Soul-less Man
Some of the uniquer K-blog names out there...
Paul Ajosshi
ZenKimchi (nobody mixes it up with anybody else - inventing a new word helps)
The Chosun Bimbo
Gusts of Popular Feeling
Good for Man's Health
Hermit Hideaways
Back from the Honeymoon!
Here's the score:
Spain World Cup: sigh. I watched the game on tape, and they DID deserve to win, but sigh. My dad's Dutch.
W Hotel Maldives: amazing! Amazing! Amazing!
Male: capital city of maldives. Probably warrants a post of its own.
Coral: mmm.
Photos and videos: about eight or ten gigabytes worth (fortunately much of that is HDMI video) - will go through it, will post some of it, but have a lot to process.
Family in Korea: so so sweet! My nieces and nephews are pretty awesome, and my brothers and sisters are, too.
The Blog: sorry about the light posting... fortunately I only plan to get married once in my life, and henceforward, I'll be back to my usual self.
Seriously though, that light posting: if you're pretty choked about it, let me know, and I'll send you a refund check.
Pictures: because the internet can be a very public place, don't expect every single picture, either of the wedding or the week with the family, or the honeymoon (especially not the honeymoon) up here... but I'll try to find some representative ones. Every picture of a loved one's face (other than my own) that goes up here will be posted only once permission has been obtained, so bear with me, and forgive the smaller number. Jagiseyo knows when I'm taking pictures for my blog, because I'm not including her in any of the pictures, and we've had a few conversations to the effect of "are you blogging right now?" which is a nice way of saying "you're not really present in this moment with me, are you?" and on the honeymoon of all places, I've been mindful of that.
However, I don't begrudge any of my blog-friends posting one or two of the (not unflattering) pictures they took of the wedding, and I hope Joy, from Foreign/er Joy doen't mind me re-posting a few of those photos.
I also certainly hope my friends who took pictures at the wedding send me copies. Hint, hint, hint.
A few pictures from Joy's page:
Some of my own pictures, and maybe a few from the studio, coming as soon as I can catch up with the eighty e-mails in my "ATEK Communications" inbox...
of course visa requirements come up when I'm on vacation. Of course.
Spain World Cup: sigh. I watched the game on tape, and they DID deserve to win, but sigh. My dad's Dutch.
W Hotel Maldives: amazing! Amazing! Amazing!
Male: capital city of maldives. Probably warrants a post of its own.
Coral: mmm.
Photos and videos: about eight or ten gigabytes worth (fortunately much of that is HDMI video) - will go through it, will post some of it, but have a lot to process.
Family in Korea: so so sweet! My nieces and nephews are pretty awesome, and my brothers and sisters are, too.
The Blog: sorry about the light posting... fortunately I only plan to get married once in my life, and henceforward, I'll be back to my usual self.
Seriously though, that light posting: if you're pretty choked about it, let me know, and I'll send you a refund check.
Pictures: because the internet can be a very public place, don't expect every single picture, either of the wedding or the week with the family, or the honeymoon (especially not the honeymoon) up here... but I'll try to find some representative ones. Every picture of a loved one's face (other than my own) that goes up here will be posted only once permission has been obtained, so bear with me, and forgive the smaller number. Jagiseyo knows when I'm taking pictures for my blog, because I'm not including her in any of the pictures, and we've had a few conversations to the effect of "are you blogging right now?" which is a nice way of saying "you're not really present in this moment with me, are you?" and on the honeymoon of all places, I've been mindful of that.
However, I don't begrudge any of my blog-friends posting one or two of the (not unflattering) pictures they took of the wedding, and I hope Joy, from Foreign/er Joy doen't mind me re-posting a few of those photos.
I also certainly hope my friends who took pictures at the wedding send me copies. Hint, hint, hint.
A few pictures from Joy's page:
Some of my own pictures, and maybe a few from the studio, coming as soon as I can catch up with the eighty e-mails in my "ATEK Communications" inbox...
of course visa requirements come up when I'm on vacation. Of course.
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Still alive, but...
Re-watched Thunderball, the old James Bond movie.
Ate breakfast at a W Hotel.
Narrowly avoided sunstroke.
Saw 40 different kinds of fish.
Life is good in Roboseyoland, but once things settle down a bit more, I'll be back to blogging as usual.
So far, the leader in the "Girlfriendoseyo needs a new nickname" sweepstakes is Selorm (seconded by Kushibo) with "Chagiseyo" - but I'll have to check with the official "updated romanization" whether I'll be using "Jagiseyo" or "Chagiseyo" or something else suggested by someone else in the comments, that's even better.
And now... it's Chagiseyo's birthday, and I have to get some stuff ready.
Stay joyful, dear readers.
Here's my mood right now.
Those who came to the wedding know why. Chagiseyo's learning the words now. The three times she's funniest are when she's singing, and when she's half-drunk.
Wedding and honeymoon photos later, once the huge mass of them (two different cameras) get processed.
Until then... Joy wrote up a nice little post about my wedding, which you can read. Thanks, Joy. I'd also like to take this moment to publicly thank Chris in South Korea for the photos he privately sent me of the wedding. Chagiseyo loved them, and sends along her thanks, too.
Ate breakfast at a W Hotel.
Narrowly avoided sunstroke.
Saw 40 different kinds of fish.
Life is good in Roboseyoland, but once things settle down a bit more, I'll be back to blogging as usual.
So far, the leader in the "Girlfriendoseyo needs a new nickname" sweepstakes is Selorm (seconded by Kushibo) with "Chagiseyo" - but I'll have to check with the official "updated romanization" whether I'll be using "Jagiseyo" or "Chagiseyo" or something else suggested by someone else in the comments, that's even better.
And now... it's Chagiseyo's birthday, and I have to get some stuff ready.
Stay joyful, dear readers.
Here's my mood right now.
Those who came to the wedding know why. Chagiseyo's learning the words now. The three times she's funniest are when she's singing, and when she's half-drunk.
Wedding and honeymoon photos later, once the huge mass of them (two different cameras) get processed.
Until then... Joy wrote up a nice little post about my wedding, which you can read. Thanks, Joy. I'd also like to take this moment to publicly thank Chris in South Korea for the photos he privately sent me of the wedding. Chagiseyo loved them, and sends along her thanks, too.
Wednesday, July 07, 2010
Got married. More later.
A few things about the wedding:
1. my wife is just awesome.
I'm trying to think of a new nickname for her, now that she's no longer girlfriendoseyo... I'd gotten used to girlfriendoseyo, and liked it (fianceeoseyo and betrothedoseyo didn't really work), but with the new upgrade to "Wife" status, I think it deserves a new nomenclature, and Girlfriendoseyo 2.0 isn't going to cut it.
2. My family's in town. It's AWESOME having my family in town. To a person, my brothers, sisters, in-laws, nieces, nephews, parents and steps are top-notch human beings, and I love having them in my life, and I really love combining the things I love about my family with the things I love about my life in Korea:
seeing my new wife laughing with my sister.
seeing my new wife playing with my nieces and nephews.
seeing my nieces and nephews take her hand as they walk along the chonggyecheon, as naturally and unconsciously as if they'd known her and hung out with her since the day they were born
the funny variety of reactions as different kids find different things they like and dislike in the dishes of food put in front of them by waiters in Korean restaurants
everybody turning into butter when my nieces say "kamsahamnida" to them
walking through the winding back alleys
my nephew sidling up to me and asking me how to say "You look pretty" in Korean, so that he can tell the lady in hanbok what he thinks (an my niece calling all the ladies in hanbok at the traditional show "princesses")
3. If you have the chance, get out to the Jung-dong theater and see the show "Miso". It's described as an opera, but that's a huge misnomer: when people say "Opera" it stirs up associations of pretension, dry snootiness, and long, boring performances that make grey-haired people nod their heads they way they do when they swirl their wine glasses. In fact, this show was captivating, for everyone from my dad, approaching retirement age, right on down to my two and three-year-old nieces, who always had something colorful to look at. The show's almost entirely nonverbal, the costumes are fantastic, they incorporate really skilled demonstrations of most of Korea's traditional performance arts, all into a colorful, funny, charming adaptation of a Korean folk tale. So yeah, drop the thirty to fifty thousand won to see the show: it's worth it. Every member of my family had a great time. This is the same theater where I saw this show, which was amazing... but Miso is even better. By about a mile.
Now I'm showing my family around Seoul for a week, before my folks head home (they're going home in stages: my brother yesterday, my sister + 3 kids and brother-in-law today, my other sister, niece, and parents on Friday), and then on Saturday Wifeoseyo and I will head out on a honeymoon. It's been great.
4. I've been overwhelmed by the support and goodwill my friends have put forward. Honestly, my wedding was on July 4th, so I expected a number of my American friends to go, "Geez; bad choice of date... It'd've been nice to go, but I have an Independence Day party to attend"... but instead, almost every person I invited, showed! It was humbling and amazing. The wedding venue actually had to set up extra tables for the dinner, because so many people came out. Plus, I was worried that when they do the traditional photo of the couple with all their friends standing behind them, that Brideoseyo would have WAAY more people on her side, than I had on mine... but it turned out that we were pretty much balanced. Sweet!
"You really do like me!"
5. Because the wedding was on the Han River, on July 4th, we got to look across the river and see a fireworks show during the after-party, in the air over Yongsan army base, due to the independence day festivities there. Did YOU have a spectacular fireworks show on YOUR wedding night?... I mean, an ACTUAL fireworks show?
Yah, I didn't think so.
Pictures... when I have the time.
Continue to expect light posting until I get back from the honeymoon.
And thanks for coming! (if you came)
and thanks for not coming! (if you didn't come.. because we were overflowing as it was...though I still wish I could've seen you)
1. my wife is just awesome.
I'm trying to think of a new nickname for her, now that she's no longer girlfriendoseyo... I'd gotten used to girlfriendoseyo, and liked it (fianceeoseyo and betrothedoseyo didn't really work), but with the new upgrade to "Wife" status, I think it deserves a new nomenclature, and Girlfriendoseyo 2.0 isn't going to cut it.
2. My family's in town. It's AWESOME having my family in town. To a person, my brothers, sisters, in-laws, nieces, nephews, parents and steps are top-notch human beings, and I love having them in my life, and I really love combining the things I love about my family with the things I love about my life in Korea:
seeing my new wife laughing with my sister.
seeing my new wife playing with my nieces and nephews.
seeing my nieces and nephews take her hand as they walk along the chonggyecheon, as naturally and unconsciously as if they'd known her and hung out with her since the day they were born
the funny variety of reactions as different kids find different things they like and dislike in the dishes of food put in front of them by waiters in Korean restaurants
everybody turning into butter when my nieces say "kamsahamnida" to them
walking through the winding back alleys
my nephew sidling up to me and asking me how to say "You look pretty" in Korean, so that he can tell the lady in hanbok what he thinks (an my niece calling all the ladies in hanbok at the traditional show "princesses")
3. If you have the chance, get out to the Jung-dong theater and see the show "Miso". It's described as an opera, but that's a huge misnomer: when people say "Opera" it stirs up associations of pretension, dry snootiness, and long, boring performances that make grey-haired people nod their heads they way they do when they swirl their wine glasses. In fact, this show was captivating, for everyone from my dad, approaching retirement age, right on down to my two and three-year-old nieces, who always had something colorful to look at. The show's almost entirely nonverbal, the costumes are fantastic, they incorporate really skilled demonstrations of most of Korea's traditional performance arts, all into a colorful, funny, charming adaptation of a Korean folk tale. So yeah, drop the thirty to fifty thousand won to see the show: it's worth it. Every member of my family had a great time. This is the same theater where I saw this show, which was amazing... but Miso is even better. By about a mile.
Now I'm showing my family around Seoul for a week, before my folks head home (they're going home in stages: my brother yesterday, my sister + 3 kids and brother-in-law today, my other sister, niece, and parents on Friday), and then on Saturday Wifeoseyo and I will head out on a honeymoon. It's been great.
4. I've been overwhelmed by the support and goodwill my friends have put forward. Honestly, my wedding was on July 4th, so I expected a number of my American friends to go, "Geez; bad choice of date... It'd've been nice to go, but I have an Independence Day party to attend"... but instead, almost every person I invited, showed! It was humbling and amazing. The wedding venue actually had to set up extra tables for the dinner, because so many people came out. Plus, I was worried that when they do the traditional photo of the couple with all their friends standing behind them, that Brideoseyo would have WAAY more people on her side, than I had on mine... but it turned out that we were pretty much balanced. Sweet!
"You really do like me!"
5. Because the wedding was on the Han River, on July 4th, we got to look across the river and see a fireworks show during the after-party, in the air over Yongsan army base, due to the independence day festivities there. Did YOU have a spectacular fireworks show on YOUR wedding night?... I mean, an ACTUAL fireworks show?
Yah, I didn't think so.
Pictures... when I have the time.
Continue to expect light posting until I get back from the honeymoon.
And thanks for coming! (if you came)
and thanks for not coming! (if you didn't come.. because we were overflowing as it was...though I still wish I could've seen you)
Friday, July 02, 2010
Family Arriving...
It's getting close, dear readers. On Wednesday night, my brother rocked into Korea, yesterday we walked around so much I got blisters on my feet, and today the rest of my family shows up.
So expect light posting from now until I return from the honeymoon:
I'M GETTING HITCHED! I'll put up updates where I can, and I'll publish the final chapter on Korean weddings and who owns a culture when I can... but don't expect a whole lot for a little while. Maybe some pictures. Some awesome pictures.
so... see y'all later.
and be excited for me. I am.
So expect light posting from now until I return from the honeymoon:
so... see y'all later.
Monday, June 28, 2010
Korea-Uruguay in City Hall
Went down to City Hall to see Korea vs. Uruguay. Missed the other games in a public, mob-setting, so I'm glad I went out to catch that one.
As game action goes, Uruguay looked really sharp on the goals they scored, and Korea will rue that goalpost free-kick in the first ten minutes. Uruguay was dumb to lay back and let Korea attack for the beginning of the second half, but the way they scored to re-take the lead made it look like they'd been toying with Korea all along. On the other hand, the Uruguayan goalie was forced to make some pretty tough stops on some very impressive setups...but he did. All in all, Korea put in a good effort, but didn't quite have the chops to top Uruguay; however, they should hold their heads high. They put forth a very respectable showing this year. The crowd was the main reason I went, though the wind went out of those sails after Uruguay's first goal; however, it's still worthwhile to get out and join tens of thousands ofKorea soccer fans once every four years: the atmosphere, especially before the kickoff, is great.
And there was barely any booing of the Uruguayan National Anthem! One drunk guy near me was shouting shut up, and a few people booed in the first five seconds, and then stopped: it seemed like they got shushed by people around them who actually knew what sports are for.
The crowds, then:
The station was a madhouse, with police shepherding people to the correct exits, and blocking others.
Because it was dark, and rainy, the photos I took around city hall had longer exposures, and they have a kind of blurry, dreamy quality. I like that. The crowd here was awesome during the build up to the game, but as soon as Uruguay took the lead, it started kind of sucking.
These three very nice people are students at the KDI, from central-asian countries. They invited me to watch the game with them. I did, until the crowd behind us decided to sit, and told us to sit, which would have meant parking my but in a puddle, which sounds like the opposite of fun to me, so I took off to get more pictures of other areas.
Heres' a video of what the scene was like.
By Gwanghwamun, the cheering section was nicer, the crowds weren't so insane, and the atmosphere was generally more laid back. In a good way.
Maybe my best crowd shot of city hall. I didn't have my camera out as much as I'd have liked, because it was getting rained on, and I don't want my camera messed up with water damage right before my family comes to Korea, I get married, and I go on a honeymoon. That'd, like, suck.
raindrops on the lens: looks nice, unless you're the one who paid for a camera that's getting wet.
after a while, the crowd called on people to stow their umbrellas, which made better viewing but fewer layers to the photos. I lost my umbrella. I lost two umbrellas this weekend, and gave a third away.
Gwanghwamun plaza wasn't too busy.
I was lucky enough to be filming when Korea scored... that reaction, and some of these other reactions to some close calls, are worth a watch as well.
Down the sides of Gwanghwamun Plaza was a big display of Korea's world cup history.
I especially liked this frame: I had no idea color film wasn't invented until after 1986.
or that giving birth to opposing players was legal during gameplay.
A lot of people were happy to pose for the cameras.
Some of them gave me cigarette smelling hugs. (not these ones, though)]
These next two pictures are cool: I like the way these two young people were totally rapt with the game action.
And the giant poo watched over it all. and it was good.
Sejong and Admiral Lee weren't as into the game action as the rest. Maybe the team could have used admiral Lee as a coach. Except he'd have invented "Turtle cleats", and that might not have gone so well in a game of speed.
Other than city hall proper, the crowd was relatively sparse. Rain'll do that.
Most of the world cup, uh, fashion, was covered in raincoats... but I caught a picture of this little group.
As game action goes, Uruguay looked really sharp on the goals they scored, and Korea will rue that goalpost free-kick in the first ten minutes. Uruguay was dumb to lay back and let Korea attack for the beginning of the second half, but the way they scored to re-take the lead made it look like they'd been toying with Korea all along. On the other hand, the Uruguayan goalie was forced to make some pretty tough stops on some very impressive setups...but he did. All in all, Korea put in a good effort, but didn't quite have the chops to top Uruguay; however, they should hold their heads high. They put forth a very respectable showing this year. The crowd was the main reason I went, though the wind went out of those sails after Uruguay's first goal; however, it's still worthwhile to get out and join tens of thousands of
And there was barely any booing of the Uruguayan National Anthem! One drunk guy near me was shouting shut up, and a few people booed in the first five seconds, and then stopped: it seemed like they got shushed by people around them who actually knew what sports are for.
The crowds, then:
The station was a madhouse, with police shepherding people to the correct exits, and blocking others.
Because it was dark, and rainy, the photos I took around city hall had longer exposures, and they have a kind of blurry, dreamy quality. I like that. The crowd here was awesome during the build up to the game, but as soon as Uruguay took the lead, it started kind of sucking.
These three very nice people are students at the KDI, from central-asian countries. They invited me to watch the game with them. I did, until the crowd behind us decided to sit, and told us to sit, which would have meant parking my but in a puddle, which sounds like the opposite of fun to me, so I took off to get more pictures of other areas.
Heres' a video of what the scene was like.
By Gwanghwamun, the cheering section was nicer, the crowds weren't so insane, and the atmosphere was generally more laid back. In a good way.
Maybe my best crowd shot of city hall. I didn't have my camera out as much as I'd have liked, because it was getting rained on, and I don't want my camera messed up with water damage right before my family comes to Korea, I get married, and I go on a honeymoon. That'd, like, suck.
raindrops on the lens: looks nice, unless you're the one who paid for a camera that's getting wet.
after a while, the crowd called on people to stow their umbrellas, which made better viewing but fewer layers to the photos. I lost my umbrella. I lost two umbrellas this weekend, and gave a third away.
Gwanghwamun plaza wasn't too busy.
I was lucky enough to be filming when Korea scored... that reaction, and some of these other reactions to some close calls, are worth a watch as well.
Down the sides of Gwanghwamun Plaza was a big display of Korea's world cup history.
I especially liked this frame: I had no idea color film wasn't invented until after 1986.
or that giving birth to opposing players was legal during gameplay.
A lot of people were happy to pose for the cameras.
Some of them gave me cigarette smelling hugs. (not these ones, though)]
These next two pictures are cool: I like the way these two young people were totally rapt with the game action.
And the giant poo watched over it all. and it was good.
Sejong and Admiral Lee weren't as into the game action as the rest. Maybe the team could have used admiral Lee as a coach. Except he'd have invented "Turtle cleats", and that might not have gone so well in a game of speed.
Other than city hall proper, the crowd was relatively sparse. Rain'll do that.
Most of the world cup, uh, fashion, was covered in raincoats... but I caught a picture of this little group.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Bwahaha! Youtube Vuvuzela For The Win!
I was poking around on YouTube, procrastinating on wedding prep stuff, when I saw this...
Did you notice it?
Look at the bottom right corner:
If you click on that soccer ball, you can watch any Youtube video with Vuvuzelas droning in the background.
I howled with laughter. Try it out. The more relaxing the original video, the funnier the vuvuzela is. But it won't do it with the embedding.
You can also surf the internet with vuvuzelas at this site: just type in the site you want to visit,
and I enjoyed this remix of Invictus, set in south africa, set to vuvuzela noise.
and of course Lord of the Rings, with great music.
Finally, the vuvuzela has a twitter account. Here. It's very well thought-out.
Love the viral jokes.
and just in case that wasn't enough Korea content for you, just so's you know, on the topic of vuvuzelas, now that they've won the group, Argentina are being kinda jerks, and saying that the only reason Korea scored their lone goal in the 4-1 loss to the Argies, is because of the Vuvuzelas. Just to remind us that bad sportsmanship is an international phenomenon, not limited to Koreans crashing Swiss web servers and stuff. (see final paragraph)
Did you notice it?
Look at the bottom right corner:
If you click on that soccer ball, you can watch any Youtube video with Vuvuzelas droning in the background.
I howled with laughter. Try it out. The more relaxing the original video, the funnier the vuvuzela is. But it won't do it with the embedding.
You can also surf the internet with vuvuzelas at this site: just type in the site you want to visit,
and I enjoyed this remix of Invictus, set in south africa, set to vuvuzela noise.
and of course Lord of the Rings, with great music.
Finally, the vuvuzela has a twitter account. Here. It's very well thought-out.
Love the viral jokes.
and just in case that wasn't enough Korea content for you, just so's you know, on the topic of vuvuzelas, now that they've won the group, Argentina are being kinda jerks, and saying that the only reason Korea scored their lone goal in the 4-1 loss to the Argies, is because of the Vuvuzelas. Just to remind us that bad sportsmanship is an international phenomenon, not limited to Koreans crashing Swiss web servers and stuff. (see final paragraph)
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